Cant believe its Sunday already, weekends go by so fast now-a-days.
Thought what I should do, is write a little about the girls personalities as they are now. It would be nice to be able to compare it when they are older and see if its changed at all.
Dillon: I always start things with Dillon for some reason, maybe cause she is the oldest and everything about being a mom started with her..
Dillon is a pleaser, she likes to please her father and myself and thrives on praise and attention. She is into princesses, pretty dresses and all things "girly" - everything I was not as a child! For the most part, she is not naughty, just very normal when it comes to not listening or too pre-occupied with something else to bother to react to instructions. She is well mannered and loves to draw and colour in pictures. She also loves to dance and moves all my lounge furniture around out of the way to set up her very own stage for herself while dancing.
She loves her sister most of the time, but its more as if Raidens role is to help entertain her and uses her sister more as an aid than a "friend".
Raiden: My very special baby.
Raiden is a stubborn, extreamly strong willed child that lives in her own fantasy world most of the time. She can quite easily entertain herself while somewhere magical in her own mind and game. She has the charm of a magical creature and can put you under her spell with just a smile. In short = she gets away with murder! Bugs and "creatures" as she calls them are her obsession, she loves everything that moves and sits talking to her bugs for ages. She has no desire to look pretty or dress up and can happily spend the day naked outside.. this is more like what I was like as a child. My little flower child. She gets extreamly emotional if things dont go her way and will act in a way that I can only describe as if the world was ending and she was the only one that knew about it! Besides playing with bugs her other hobby is tormenting her big sister.. she loves to give Dillon a hard time and will often provoke Dillon just because she can. I assume she likes the reaction she gets from Dillon who has trouble dealing with anger and frustration. In her offence Dillon does get quite funny when irritated or annoyed, even I have to hide a little giggle every now and then.
I actually cant wait until they are old enough for me to explain to them how important they are to each other. I want to be able to tell them how lucky they are to have "friends" for life in each other and that no matter what, they will always have each other, especially when they have no one else. They are each others worst enemies and best friends all in one. They are two sides to the same coin. So very different to each other, but when together, they hold a force stronger than anything I can ever imagine. No one will and can break the one with the other near. They will protect and shelter each other when they will need it, they will stand up and fight for each other, when the one cant do it alone. They will also be able to laugh. Laugh with and at each other. What they have is the best gift.. they have each other, now and forever!
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